Annoying people u put up with for your partner (make me feel better please....)

[whatdoithinknow]

I know some of you have mil from hell and I'm lucky not to suffer that, but I do have to put up with the xw who will always remain a nuisance in our lives as they have teenage child together, its got to the point where it can put me in a bad mood and spoil our day just through her getting in touch to moan about something, it would be a huge plus in my life if me and dp split that i would never have to hear her name again or hear what she has been moaning about. I wish dp would tell her to f off but he wont. Please make me feel like this is not so bad as i really regret getting with a divorcee but surely other men come with annoyances too??

[Ambivalence]

They ALL come with annoyances.

My fiancees brother gets on my nerves - they live abroad thank heavens so we see them rarely, but this weekend, we were going from a garden to a restauraunt - he was in the car with his kids, the rest of us were travelling by bus, I suggested he let his 73 year old mother (who struggles to balance and walks with a stick) take his place in the car and he come with us by bus. Dids he? No, he let her struggle. Selfish git.

[littlepiggie]

Dp sister has caused so much trouble over the last year, I will no longer have her in our house. After a lot of argument, dp understands and respects my feelings towards her, though she still insists he should leave.

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

Was the other way around for me. With one or two exceptions, my exH's family were lovely people. I think I put up with him for so long because I didn't want to lose them :)