Finally snapped and told him to go after being berated for not being enthusiastic enough about collecting dsd. He's been off work for 3 weeks and I've literally done everything not just in the house, working full time, caring for DCs etc but also caring for and loving him whilst he is off work. But I'm lazy/selfish/am unhappy in marriage/want it to end according to him.
He always threatens to go and calls me names if we disagree, picks out anything negative out if all the positives we have, to focus on and (metaphorically) beat me with.
I snapped. I threw my tea cup on the floor. I told him home truths. I told him to leave.
He said 'ok then' and got up and left.
This is it, I don't want him back. His comes I feel so calm and strong? I thought I'd be in bits.
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He's gone, why do I feel so calm/strong?
ObscuredByClouds · 25/09/2012 23:59
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