I known this girl for about 3 years.
We was friends then argued didnt talk.
I am 27w pregnant and shes the only one ive closed information about the father, my babys name etc.
She just seems to think its fun to be pregnant and i think shes very envious of me being pregnant(i dont know why).
Shes very two-faced to other people and im started to think is she doing the same with me?
We rarely talk and i think she has told a few people my DS name ive picked and even told my ex(not the father i was pregnant).
She copies everything, how i do my make up to my clothes. Moans about money and ask how i can afford stuff being pregnant, i say i save my money up, £3 here and £6 to build it up to treat myself.
I get a grant soon, which im buying a new pair of doc martens(walking everywhere when hes born, buses are to much money)she has a pair too and will say something to me saying oh can you afford them when your pregnant? Ive bought everything for DS and need to pay off the pram i bought and some nappies.
All she moans about is her boyfriend who is a idoit, going out and bands, 14 year olds fancy her bf and got really jealous when her ex got with her 'friend' who she didn't even like.
She has been there but think lifes one big joke i dont really want to friends with her anymore but dont know what to say?
I haven't seen her in ages nor do we talk but she goes on about my baby as her child(her being the dad, as the real one is absent)
Im really funny about people touching the baby, she smokes heavy and dont wash her hands a lot, thick in foundation type. She said i cant wait to hold him and take pictures( which no-one is expect family because i dont want my ex to see what he looks like).
I dont really talk to anyone, expect my mum and dad. I am starting a mums group on thursday, which i am looking forward too.
Any advice?
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xmasevebundle · 22/09/2012 21:43
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