I'm SO MAD...
Xs day to have kids today. So he turns up at 930am, which is fine except we never know when he is coming..I've given up asking, he wont give a time...and sometimes he doesn't turn up at all.
He moved out of the family home 3 months ago into a bedsit, where it is unsuitable for kids to go for over night stays.
He arrives and sits at the kitchen table talking to a friend on the phone I offer to put some snacks etc in a bag so he can take them to the Rugby Club-season starts today, dd1 plays. He doesnt want to go to RC because it is 'raining' (it plainly isnt, but not worth arguing) so I go upstairs....half hour later he announces he will take them to rugby!! so, big rush to get kids dressed and bag ready. He burns them some scrambled eggs and tries to feed it to dd2 in sitting room, in front of TV. I tell him that is useless; he needs to turn tele off and sit them at kitchen table, plus I dont want a food mess in sitting room. He rants about how I try to control him....kids wont eat burnt eggs I make some toast
he announces he will bring them back after rugby at 12pm! Fucking 1.5 hours 'quality time' with their dad in over a fortnight!!
THEN his friend arrives to give them a lift...they have gone in his car WITHOUT car seats dd2 under 2 years -dd1 will be ok
I am so
It all happened in a bit of a chaotic whirlwind, and I was unable to stop them
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stupid fucking ex, and stupid fucking me...
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