I need some help - husband working away for 18 month or so, comes home at weekends - too far for me to go to him - I'm at home with 2 under fours. He's always been workaholic so used to him being busy/away. He's a good dad/husband and does a lot when here but strange behaviour lately - new wardrobe, little digs (I have been feeling exhausted recently), forgot my b'day then went overboard over the following months. I realise it looks glaringly obvious when I read through it but he HAS been put under stress at work and is attentive. He hates his job but he is earning good money and not much work where we are. He keeps everything on work phone/laptop so I have no real need to use or snoop! I lost the plot at him the other day as I feel something is up and he said he isn't that sort of person and I should know that after 15 yrs!
How can I tell if he's just placating me to carry on with whatever he's doing or if he's telling me the truth? I have seen work messages to someone he's never mentioned to me. Just a couple - nothing personal but I just a bad feeling:(
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Is my husband playing away or trying to???!
twentyeightagain · 31/08/2012 11:25
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