But I am truly terrible at making decisions . I have just kind of let life happen to me for the last 10 years, there were many indicators that we were not really compatible but I think I was a bit needy and always hoped he would show an interest in me.
I have had enough now though, he is always hugging and kissing me, but basically never talks to me, he is happy to discuss whatever is on TV, what happened at work, the children etc. He constantly stares at a screen or falls asleep, if I try try to discuss anything remotely related to our relationship or problems in real life, he just shuts down and stares ahead/refuses to engage.
How on earth do I get the bravery to actually end it? Should I even end it, we have 3 young children and he is quite a lot older than me.
I don't have any family or friends here, despite living here for 8 years. I feel like I was basically ok when I met him, slightly depressed or whatever, but since then I have just slid down and down.
I am so scared of actually saying I want to leave him, I would be totally alone, we don't have much money, I have no idea how it would work.
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MrsJohnMurphy · 21/08/2012 01:35
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