I've been married for a few years and we have 2 very young dc. It's not been an easy ride. We've had 2 rounds of marriage guidance and still come back to the same communication issues.
Basically, I've fallen out of love with dh. Obviously not out of choice and there is no-one else. He knows this and still loves me but it's difficult. He's not an easy person to love. I feel lonely and sad and a bit sorry for dh if the truth be told, but I'm living in hope.
Has anyone else been here and it's been fine?
I'm very traditional and my marriage vows still stand - through thick and thin etc So how long do you keep on going in the hope that things will get better?
I just feel indifferent and tired of it all, and therefore, guilty. I want this to work, but I'm not sure how any more, and I'm not sure I'm even trying hard enough as my priorities are the dc. I can't remember why or what made me first love him. I know it's a journey and it can't always be rosy in the garden, but this is a long and tough phase.
So sad.
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creativepebble · 15/07/2012 22:00
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