Anyway to lower my sex drive??? Its driving me mad...

[notsurewhyohwhy]

My sex drive is really high and its driving me mad... I am single but have a fwb that I see every few weeks. But if for example we meet up and it only happens once or twice in an eveing I get really annoyed.

And it was the same with the last guy I was going out with, twice per night was his limit and it left me in a terrible state...

So is there anyway to lower my sex drive? I am starting to feel that I cannot be satisfied!

[Queenoftheblues]

Citralopram kills the libido dead. It's prescribed for depression or anti anxiety.

Either that or invest in a Rampant Rabbit?

[cocolepew]

Showy off.

[notsurewhyohwhy]

oh i really dont want to try antidepressants. and i have got a rabbit, but i really feel its not the same as being with someone.

i'm really not showing off its really annoying

[Fuckitthatlldo]

I go through phases where mine is through the roof as well. But I can recommend having a baby - that'll kill any sex drive stone dead for a good couple of years

[mercibucket]

Sounds more like frustration than a high sex drive! What's the prob with multiple orgasms instead of multiple shags? Do they come too quick or something?

Anyway, flippant answer if : get older and have more kids

Worked for me

[mercibucket]

Sounds more like frustration than a high sex drive! What's the prob with multiple orgasms instead of multiple shags? Do they come too quick or something?

Anyway, flippant answer if : get older and have more kids

Worked for me

[notsurewhyohwhy]

i'm single so cant have anymore kids alone

well we had sex twice in an hour, so its not that he came quickly but not exactly a marathon session is it??

[redfacedhurtface]

Jealous - my libido has been swiped away from me this weekend!

[HMG83]

I completely get where you're coming from!!!

I have a FWB, I see him 3/4 times a week but it's never enough He doesn't get it, says I must be a sex maniac.

It drives me up the wall and to be honest makes me pretty darn irritable, especially when he goes away for a couple of weeks!

[Kennyp]

Get a rabbit vibrator and loads of batteries. Should sort you out?!?!

[HMG83]

Kennyp - It's really nothing compared to the real thing :P

[notsurewhyohwhy]

I agree doesn't really do the job in the same way!!

Wow 3-4 times per week would be great I don't even get it once a week right now

Anyone tried the vibrating knickers?? As the rabbit doesn't work for me!!

[AltruisticEnigma]

I am with you on this one OP. I forgot how terribly horny I would end up when I was 15 or 16. I thought it was just the teenage years as that happens a lot. Now I've began to lower my dose of my medication though, it's going sky high again - it's a nightmare. I already have a healthy sex life but now I find myself wanting sex every night, really. Maybe 1 or 2 times a night, sometimes. At very least 2 or 3 times a week. :o My fiance doesn't mind as he has a high libido too, but the actual sensation of it during the day when I'm doing something or whilst I'm waiting for him to come to bed etc is quite uncomfortable.

Even when on the medication I went through a period of a lot of the horns when I was in College a few years back (18/19 - it was my second college) and I remember someone knocking on my door asking if I wanted to come out for a drink and I told them to do one, in a less polite way. They shouted in, "Hey, not my fault if you're sexually frustrated--was just trying to be friendly!" I wasn't sure it was that obvious?!

Anyway I don't really have any suggestions except from masturabation, getting to meet your fwb as often as possible--any other friends you could be 'extra close' with? If you have 2 or 3 on the go, you could get it pretty much 2 or 3 times a week. :)

[AnyFucker]

get a few more FWB's ?

[AKissIsNotAContract]

The whole point of FWB is that you don't have to be monogamous, so get another one or more on the go. You probably need a man who cares more about your orgasm than his own, so he can give you several before he gets his.

[likeatonneofbricks]

I know - go to Toyboywarehouse site, so many horny younger men looking for no strings!

[AnyFucker]

is there really such a site ?

[izzyizin]

Yes, there is, AF. 'Where smart meets sexy' aka 'Where prey meets cougar'

[AnyFucker]

< guffaw >

[extremelyfrustrated]

Well try going without a shag for 17 months then you'll know what frustrated means I want to jump on every man I see!! I have a date lined up on Friday and whilst I do not have any plans to shag him I am REALLY hoping that it turns into something as my libido is through the roof. Sorry TMI (I have NC for this btw )

[notsurewhyohwhy]

Well I'm glad to see im not alone in this, but I feel like I'm going to die today!!

I would love to have another fwb but I'm very fussy and havnt met anyone I really like.

Although saying that everyone on Pof looks attractive when I am feeling like this! When normally I think yuk to everyone!

[AnyFucker]

are you ovulating, chuck ?

[Happylander]

Certainly agree Citalopram does kill you libido dead. I am struggling with losing mine or should I say my boyfriend is! Gives us some of yours please

[notsurewhyohwhy]

Right now you can have it all as it is stressing me out!!

I have no idea if I am ovulating or not but it's making me like a nutcase!!

[watchoutforthatsnail]

oh, i understand, totally.
its bloody difficult, esp if you are a highly sexed person.
To be a long term single, without any kind of regualr sex, does send you a bit loopy, and then when you do get it, you just want more and more and more, and cant get satisfied.

and to be fair, no rabbit, or sex toy can replace an actual human and the intmacy that comes along with it. Its not interactive at all.

FWB are harder to come by than people might think.