I had my friend on the phone very early today asking me for advice. I don't know what to say- except how I see it.
Her DH had a very brief affair. They live apart anyway due to his work.
I don't want to go into details but would like to know how many women did forgive and start again, and how you felt able to at least try.
My friend has gone from kcking him out when he confessed, to ringing him during the night pleading fo him to come back and try again- to now- when he appears to be wanting to try- not being sure what she wants, all based on whether she can forgive and trust.
She think the trust has gone forever, whereas I am more inclined to say that if there is enough love and commitment to try again, then trust can be re-built over time- but not overnight.
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Aliceinthelookingglass · 18/06/2012 12:24
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