Can I ask about sex and wee? At the same time?

[PintandChips]

In a new relationship - he has an 'interesting' sexul request. Am not sure about it. Can anyone advise if I am being totally prudish?

[myalias]

Golden showers!!!!!!

[BelieveInPink]

How new?

[myalias]

I prefer a champagne shower

[PintandChips]

BIP it's been 2 months and 2 weeks - he suggested it first time we had sex though - I was a bit freaked out and said no, nicely. Has become clear it's his 'thing' so I think I have to go for it or let the relationship go... Is it disgusting? Have never even CONSIDERED it being sexual?

[AnyFucker]

just one thing to say here

do it if you want to

if he's putting pressure on and squicking you out, run like the fucking wind

out of interest, what is the pissing positin he is after ?

pisser or pissee ?

if it's pissee, I would run like the fucking wind anyway

there is something wrong about men who like to piss on women

[AnyFucker]

he suggested it the first time you had sex ?



where did you meet this person ?

[PinkChampagneandStrawberries]

I consider my self to be quite adventurous open minded but I really couldn't do that but it's really up to you but don't do it if it makes you uncomfortable. Also consider if it's something you would never do or would consider in a more serious relationship.

[Pochemuchka]

As long as you are the pee -er and it's at his house, shouldn't be a problem!
I have come across this request a few times (and I've not evenhad many partners!) so it's either more common than expected or I attract people that like pee!
Seriously, if you like him and are happy to then give it a go and if you don't want to tell him and take it from there.

[BonkeyMollocks]

Has become clear it's his 'thing' so I think I have to go for it or let the relationship go... Is it disgusting? Have never even CONSIDERED it being sexual?

If you say no, point blank NO, then he should accept that. If he doesn't then he aint worth it!

[PintandChips]

He wants me to do it on him. In his mouth. I am laughing just writing about it, it's SO weird isn't it? I am waiting for the poster who says "no, it's fine! It's really common! They all love it!" where is that person?

[BabylannShallFall]

Hi. I would not do this, even with DP who I have a child with (and another on the way) and love immensely.

However, I don't think it's completely terrible and if you have interest or want to experiment with the idea then go for it. If you don't want to do it, then don't.

Am also curious about who would be pissing on who.

I tend to think their are psychological issues behind most fetishes.

[Pochemuchka]

Ooh I missed the 'first time we had sex' bit! Now that is unusual! Is he definitely looking for a relationship?

[rockinastocking]

In his mouth?

Oh...yuk.

[AnyFucker]

no, it's not common to piss in someone's mouth

it really isn't

don't listen to anyone that tells you it is

[BabylannShallFall]

I don't know if you've asked him, but does he have experience of this that he's enjoyed?

I'd particularly hate to do this with someone who'd never done it before in case they regretted it mid-flow and asked me to stop. I'd be so ashamed.

[Ponders]

in his mouth????

I have heard of people who would like this from under eg a glass coffee table

but in the mouth? ew

(have led sheltered life mind you)

[AnyFucker]

where did you meet this individual ?

[WhiteWidow]

Each to their own! If you want to do it do it, but dont feel forced. You're not being prudish at all. I don't think I could do it

[PintandChips]

Pochemuchka you are the one I have been waiting for! All my GF's on RL have gagged at the thought and said they'd never ever do it.
I could give it a go but I don't think it would be sexual for me. I want to ask what the attraction is, but too scared.

[doggiemumma]

I could be that person - because my DP likes a bit of watersports and so do i. I think it is actually more common than you might think. I quite like it but i am into bdsm and i like that aspect of it. As for him asking ou on the first time you have sex - i think thats a bit much actually, surely you should be taking things slowly


Is not dirty though, perfectly safe (if you are already sharing body fluids no less safe than "normal" sex)

[WhiteWidow]

AnyFucker - he can't help what turns him on

[AnyFucker]

there are some people I could do this to

but it wouldn't be someone I had any affection for ....

[BonkeyMollocks]

Ok, little bit but here goes....dh has asked me in the past to do this. In his mouth. I nearly pissed myself laughing.

I couldn't do it. I mean I physically could not do it. I could not 'go' into someones mouth. We laugh about it but it will not happen...EVER!! Not my thing, at all!

Is it disgusting? Each to their own!

Some people find oral sex 'disgusting' mostly people love it.

But again, if you say no, that should be the end!

[AnyFucker]

you are too scared to talk to him about it ?

then don't do it

[BabylannShallFall]

I would say if you're too scared to talk about sex with him, you probably shouldn't be considering experimenting with sex in this way.

It could lead to a whole manner of problems.