Just looking for some kind words ti help me deal with my v mIxed feelings please.iMy sis is in her 30s and old enough to know better but always been self destructive (in her opinion cool). Earlier this year her ds went to live with her father. She then drove her car whilst high. I live aboard. Now the baby has been taken from her and is with family. I offered to take the baby but not the preferred option as I live aboard.My dh and db are fuming with her for the hurt she caused. My mum is broken hearted. I feel guilt for not being there, getting on with my life. I feel I let my sis and mum down. I feel relieve that baby is now safe it has been hard to sleep worrying about it, but knew her dh family were watching closely. I feel despair for her two kids not having their mum. I fear she has nothing to live for now and will od. I fear she will sleep around and have more babies and they will be born addicted and end up with me/in care. There is such shame it's hard to open up to people. This is why this anon forum is so good. Pls help
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