I've been with dp now for almost 7 years. We have 2 dc aged 3 and 9mo. We've overcome lots together and are getting along nicely at the moment even though after splitting up for a short while when ds was a baby we still don't live together.
I won't let him move in with us until he gets a job. I don't want to spend my life supporting him not working. Apparently, he's been looking but there's nothing about. I had a quick look today. Found lots of jobs including one within 0.1 miles on okish money with decent hours. Totally disinterested.
I feel gutted. I thought we were working towards having both of us working, living together, getting married. Its just never going to happen. He's never going to change.
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I don't want it to be over, but there's just no future [sad]
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DefiniteMaybe · 31/05/2012 11:18
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