That's is really, he told me he had been paying it OK every month, promised me after we had 18 months of nightmare due to unemplyment/redundancy and the bank were great at the time. We were on a scheme to pay the normal mortgage and some extra.
DH's explanation is that he lied because he gets paid at different, albeit, the same times each month and just did not sort payments properly and it all got in a mess. No excuse really.
I spoke to them and they said they just need to do income and expenditure sheet and work out a repayments, they guy was very sympathetic on the phone as I got upset.
I just feel sitting here now in the house I love and worked hard to pay for when I was working, feels fake and could be taken away so easily. Why does my Dh not get this? He earns enough to pay the mortgage and promised me he had been.
This happened to me when I was at home with my parents, and the house was taken away due to a failed business. He knows this and how horrible it was when I was younger, but does not have capability to pay the £ every month.
How can the reason to leave someone be becuase they can't pay the mortgage?
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Just found out DH not been paying mortgage and now have 15 days to sort it
carocaro · 10/05/2012 16:19
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