Basically, I had a baby 10 days ago and as we originally agreed, he was to have a week off work to help out and spend time with me. Mainly being as its our DS2 and with our first he buggered off to france and missed DS1s birth and didn't come back till he was 9 days old, didn't phone or anything to see how we were. But that's another story.
This time, he promised hed make it special for me as we don't want anymore children, all through my pregnancy he wasn't supportive, I had SPD, and still had to clean the house, do his washing, cook dinners and deal with our 3 year old. He didn't help once. So I was really looking forward to the week together to get a rest and some help before getting back to being a 'slave'. I am also a full time student.
Once DS2 was born, he broke the news that he's doing 12 hour shifts at work, and went back when he was 2 days old (he was born early hours saturday morning) DP did 12 hour nights, which was worst as I then had to do everything day and night.I have managed to keep up, dinners cooked, house blitzed. But feeling really fed up now, he thinks I'm being unreasonable about being pissed of with him doing all these hours(he is now doing 12 hour days this week, gets back when DS1 has been bathed and in bed.
I feel like he's ruined this time for me, when we should be being a family, doing things together.
Surely a week off wasn't unreasonable? He booked it and everything, but cancelled it so that he could work instead.
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confuzed90 · 09/05/2012 10:28
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