Someone I'd considered to be one of my closest friends really feels like she's now an acquaintance.
We both work FT but live only 15 min walk from each other. I have 2 boys, both born before her DS. When Ds1 was a baby we'd see each other a lot, both with and without him. After DS2 arrived, it did get harder, but I was hopeful that once she had her baby, we'd have more in common - and would be doing things that would be child focussed. In fact, it's been the opposite. We never get invited along to things (park trips/lunch etc) and even when we take the initiative, it feels like they will accept our offer as a last resort (and not if another, better offer might come)
Last 'incident' was being semi-invited round with only 2 days notice - for her birthday, which has always been an important get together in previous years
I guess I have answered my own question...am just a bit sad that a friendship of almost 20 years seems to have ended and I don't know why
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When do you just let a friendship fizzle out?
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HomeEcoGnomist · 06/05/2012 21:30
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