I don't know if it's me being completely unreasonable but I've reached breaking points with the in-laws...DP and I had a faboulus DS last year in April and we've seen his parents once since (just after the birth). DP fell out with his mum about letitng the baby (new born) cry it out (we siad it was a bad idea), tried to apologise immedilately afterwards but she has since refused to speak to him (did not speak to him last November when they met at a funeral). She has then blamed me for the fall out. DP's sister joined into the debackle, I was emailing her as I was very upset and she forwarded all my emails to the mum. By August last year DP's parents deicded not to speak to us anymore.
In December we invited DP's sister to meet us, she has four kids and we wanted DS to see his cousins (my family is in France so he doens't get to see much of them). She mentioend she didn't wish to be in the same room as me, so we let it be. Then in February her 5 year old had to go to hospital so I suggested to come visit with DS to offer support, she never took me up on the offer even though she goes every week to Hospital. We invited them again for DS's birthday and were turned down. She has now accused us of not making the effort to go and see them in Herts.
Sorry, this turns out to be a long post. I want my DS to know his family but I just hate them so much, DP cried after the argument with his parents and I can't get on with his sister who is an absolute hypocrite.
What shall I do, I feel like I'm prohibiting my DS from knowing his family but at the same time they have been odious to us and still refuse to admit it. All I want is an acknowledgement, not even an apology but they can't bring themselves to say hands up we may have hurt and upset you. What should I do?
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OliveandJim · 03/05/2012 15:45
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