Only been with DP for 6 months but me and DC live with him. I gave up my tenancy to move in with him. I did have good reasons for this main season being access to better nursery and school for DS who is on spectrum.
The problem is on Sunday after an eventful Saturday night I found out lots about DP I didn't know. As in a whole history he had hidden from me. The information came from various sources. Some trustworthy some not so. After a long talk we decided to put it behind us and move on and I thought all was going to be well.
Last night I received an email from a woman which was forward of an email he had sent her yesterday afternoon which included a video he had sent her. She apologised but explained she had seen his relationship status on facebook and thought I should know so had gotten my email address from my facebook. I haven't mentioned this to him. I found out from her she had met him on a dating website and after some digging online last night I discovered he is registered to lots of them from the innocent type plentyoffish to ones such as fuck book and old slapper dating.
I feel so sick right now. I'm in same house as him trying to act normal but want to scream. I know if I bring it up he'll deny everything and then walk out which would be ok but I'm worried he will come back demand that I move out as it is his house.
The other thing stopping me is my DC adore him. He treats them like his own and they would be so upset if we split up. I don't want to move them either as they have just settled into this house and new school and are doing great at school much better than at previous school. I just feel so trapped.
Sorry so long. Just had to get it out.
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