Ok, background is split up with DH a month ago. Have DS 13 (not his). Only been married 4 months, DH has MH issues. DS also has MH issues relating to his father.
Left DH due to emotional abuse of me, physical abuse of DS. In the time I've been away, have had approx 20 texts and 10 calls a day from DH threatening to kill himself. Has tapered off in last 3 days. Have 2 good friends in RL plus lovely DM, am so lucky. But can't keep calling them with latest stuff about DH, I feel I am boring them.
DH needs to move out of ex-shared property but making no effort. I am paying for everything. When I said I would not pay any more (for 2 properties rent and bills) he went nuts and said he was OD'ing. He has not done this so far though. I have a small inheritance that I used to move out. I have no money left. He doesn't work, has no savings and still expects me to bail him out.
I just feel alone and lonely. I miss my Dad (dec'd June 2011). I wish I could talk to him. I feel miserable, yet remind myself there are so many others far worse off than me and then I feel guilty.
Any advice please?
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Lonely as hell, please help
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