MY DP has decided he's fallen out of love with me and wants to find himself, he's bored of his life and wants to start afresh. We've been together for 14 years and have had a lot of ups and downs but have always managed to work through them, we've only just got sorted financially after failed businesses etc and I'd just began to look forward to being able to afford to lots of good things as a family. We'd booked a break over Easter with the DC's which he's still coming with us. He told me on mothers day that he didn't love me and wanted to move out and he's found a place to rent that is about 10 minutes walk away. It will be three weeks since he told me that he wanted to leave before he actually does move out. I don't know what's going on, there is nobody else involved but he just wants to find himself again.
These past couple of days I've been finding myself wanting sex with him all the time, of course being a man he's happy to oblige but still doesn't feel anything towards me. Am I going to feel worse because I'm doing this, its the only way I can cope at the moment. I just feel like I'm going insane. I have counselling sessions booked for when we come back from the holiday as I know I'm going to find it very hard once he does leave. He still wants to come round every day to see the DC's, its like he wants to leave me but still be part of the family. I'm finding it totally confusing!
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Am I mad!
BuwchBywiog · 30/03/2012 14:02
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