Hi folks
I've only been dipping in these parts very briefly but keep generally up to date in my lurking :-)
I split with my violent and abusive DH in April/May of this year - bit of a blur.
I managed to have no police involved and he moved into a flat after a few months of staying with friends (mine) and relatives (mine again). Every weekend he came back to see the DCs in the marital home and I sort of remained amicable. Although amicable really means me not commenting or challenging him on his continued bad behaviour. He goes through my things (dirty washing, post, clothes, bins), he questions me incessantly about where I have been and I am ALWAYS lying, obviously, criticises what I spend money on, what I have said to whom, goes on constantly about me seeing other men, goes through my phone given the SLIGHTEST opportunity (i.e. even when he finds it hidden, with a code).
And recently he has started to try and blackmail me for money out of the house to pay off his massive debts.
Obviously goes without saying he emails, texts, calls constantly too.
I have really tried to give him the opportunity to change his behaviour for the sake of peace for the children. BUT I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.
Is my only option an injunction? What shall I do?
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Should I get an injunction/non-molestation?
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LadyBlaBlah · 04/12/2011 22:37
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