I hope i dont come across as being hearless but need to talk.
DH has been unemployed nearly 3 years and been in a job 3 weeks now. He's had quite a few jobs over the years (he's a professional) and his friends do joke about it. Almost every job has been either 'boring', 'too intense' or 'hasnt got on with boss'. In the 3 years he was unemployed he could have got a job if he really wanted to. He presumes, and jundges the job and people sometimes based on trivial things before he even met them. Now he's complaining about this job and the new boss. Now i want to scream and think i've had enough of this crap but cant say it like that to him cos i dont want to hurt him or make things worse for him.
This year was hard for me cos I lost my dad, had a hard time with a new boss so found another job which actually worked out better money wise although not what i expected it to be. I could not grieve for my dad for some reason and still dont feel i have, not properly.
I am really getting fed up with his constant rantings and complaning and i want to tell him to stop. How do i do this without sending him over whatever edge he's on? Can anyone with experience in similar situations please help.
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Hypermutley · 04/12/2011 16:10
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