A man I know who is married has had a string of affairs- and did so when his wife left him temporarily many times over 20 years. The last time was for 4 years although, she alwasy came to live with him in the UK every school holidays- in between then she was living elsewhere in Europe- and kept him dangling over whether she would come back for good.
Meanwhile he was on a dating site , describing himself as separated- which was stretching it a bit( he doesn't know I know but a friend of mine spotted him.)
He is now over the moon that his wife has come back, hopefully for good- but guess what- he is still shoiwng as online and recent activity on the dating site.
Now, it could be innocent and a pure ego boost, it could be an insurance policy- more like it- but it is bothering me.
I really really can't see myself interferring, but at the same time, the thought of an annonymous letter to her or a print out of his profile comes to mind.
I can't afthom it- he was desperate for her to come back.
You really really can't see yourself interfering but the thought of an anonymous letter or print out of his dating site profile has entered your mind?
Come on honey, who are you trying to kid. What's your interest in their business - are you one of his conquests?
Their marriage is their affair - leave well alone and don't stoop to sending anonymous letters and the like because, apart from being an act of supreme cowardice and spitefulness, it's unlikely to have the effect you desire.