offered olive branch.
big problems in relationship. i feel really stupid.
have been with dh for 10 years we have 2 dcs ( i have 4dcs, but 2 from prev marriage)
don't know where to start, dc4 arrived 6mths ago by emcs, big arguments started btwn dh & I.
long story short - i have to try to make it work. dh phoned my mum months ago to say i was unhinged, had pnd - i wasn't. i didn't.
I feel he went behind my back, he told my mum not to tell me. he revealed lots of bad things about our relationship that i would have prefered to have kept private - because at this time my brother was diagnosed with cancer. i felt my mum had enough to deal with.
today, after my mum has been diagnosed with breast cancer, i asked dh not to phone her with our problems - have not told him about breast cancer diag. but did say that my brother has cancer & she has enough to deal with. this is all very disjointed. i am so angry. i beared my soul & dh said i was:
'being strange'
that's it. no - i'm sorry you brother has cancer. it's so cold. he prides himself on having such a close & warm family. sorry, there is more to this. i'm in shock.
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feeling stupid - offered olive branch to dh - do you think he threw it back in my face??
abbdabb · 21/10/2011 21:50
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