I don't know how to help her.
She's pg with her 4th. Her dh doesn't want it. Says it will ruin the family and the other children will have to immediately leave private school, they'll have to sell their house - "ruin what they have now".
She doesn't want to be pg, wants the baby though iyswim, and is finding his pleading and begging really hard to deal with.
She has an appointment booked at a clinic for next Wed - she's had a bit of counselling for this. She's 13 weeks now. She just doesn't know where to turn or what to think. She doesn't think it's such a 'disaster' as her dh does but he appears to be totally panicking and says he'll do anything if only she'll get rid of her pregnancy.
She says she would like me to come with her to the appointment. I can't. I just cannot. I'm such a crap friend but I cannot go to one of those clinics again.
Is there any other help she can access, please? And will she be "ruining" the family? I don't say anything but try to listen because everyone is telling her to have a termination.
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