Friend has borderline abusive (erm not sure how to define that) with H. he has strange views on what constitutes family life. Basically, no one but wife looks after him. She has new baby and is tired. I offered to collect her DS from school with my DD and come to mine for a bit of a play after school
All hell erupted at hers later when he learned of this. He was verbally very abusive to her about letting this happen. Accused her of being a liar and a cheat as she had not said anything to him, delivering all this tirade as she breast fed little one. . Because of his work, he is able to be with them at morning drop off. To say I got some dirty looks is an understatment. Mean while she was in the middle blithering about something to try an lift the general air of pissed of emenating from him. She later told me what had happened.
In conclusion, I shall not offer again. She has left him before and they are in a nearly permanent state of crisis. I am fucked off that his aggression is seeping into my life. She knows where I stand regards him, I have made efforts to get to know him, but choke on anything further than civillity. I also feel aggrieved at her for some reason. Want to kick the pair of them
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