Our closest friends got married on Friday. DH was bestman. Fantastic day until the very end. 4 of us were sat in the bar catching up. We'd all had a few drinks but from what I could see none of us were really drunk.
Bride had arrived at ceremony a little merry and admitted she and her bridesmaid had drank a couple of bottles of champagne when getting ready.
Anyway, we were in bar when the groom suddenly went weird and was quite vicious towards his new wife because she'd drank champers at "his wedding". She got very upset so I told him to wind his neck in before he started on me! I left bar with bride and took her to her room but had to come back down to get a room key for my own room. I met DH leaving the bar to say that the groom had started on DH and he'd become quite vicious.
There were a few more incidents where the groom just wouldn't let things go but it would make this thread massive! Needless to say, we've never experienced this side of the groom before.
Our biggest concern is that the bride admitted (only to DH) that the groom has hit her in the past and that he had behaved like this in the past. This really has upset DH and he doesn't know what to do.
Yesterday morning, we cleared up and sorted out everything we could before I took presents etc to their room. The groom was still asleep but the bride had not slept and looked utterly horrendous. She said there was nothing I could do so I left and we came home.
The groom tried to call DH a few times yesterday but DH couldn't bring himself to talk to him so we decided to sleep on things last night (being tired and having had a few drinks).
This morning I text the groom to tell him what I think (couldn't call as they are leaving on honeymoon) for a response of "we're right as rain and back to normal"
I am just a bit shocked this morning. At the end of the day, although this has been a new experience for us it would appear to be normal for them but I am really concerned about the hitting comment from the wedding night to DH and he really doesn't know what do think. do or say.
We have no experience so can anyone offer any guidance?
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gregssausageroll · 09/10/2011 10:16
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