Hello
Split up with my husband 8 months ago. He had a major mid life crisis, an EA with a mutual friend and totally rejected me finishing with him moving out. This was completely out of the blue for me and broke my heart, we had been together since we were 16 over 19 years. It ended up him moving out and we didn't really communicate for the first two months.
Anyway after this we started to be friends, he said he had made a huge mistake, lost his mind, and he still loved me and he wanted to come back but I felt I wasn't ready for this, although I did and do still do love him. For the past 4 months we have been back together in a dating seeing each other everynight kind of way. He is desperate for our life to be how it was before (he has not moved back in yet because I won't let him)
He is trying really hard and we have been to counseling and resolved a lot of our/his issues. He never really got over his dad dying and we were in huge debts (not excusing him just trying to explain)
Anyway what I want to know is when will I get over this bitterness and anger I feel towards him. Will I ever get over it? How can I live and trust a man who broke my heart and left me? How can I not, I love him so much and miss him when he is not here. Has anyone been through anything similar and took their husband back?
Did it work?
All perspectives on this very welcome.
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Is it possible to forgive and forget regarding husband people who have done this please
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lifeshock · 06/10/2011 15:51
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