Been single for a while now and am hoping to get back into dating again soon. I had bad experiences with my ex though regarding sex/disrespect and I just want to confirm that this is NOT normal or is it me that's a bit "uptight"?
Basically we would have gone to bed. I would turn my back to him and start trying to fall asleep. He would move up close behind me (spoon?) and hug me. He'd then start trying to direct his penis into me and say stuff like "am I on target? do I need to be up or down?" etc even though I was not responding to him at all and making it obvious I wasn't interested. Everytime I heard those words "am I on target" I just wanted to punch him. So I just need to confirm, this wasn't normal was it? normal men don't try and direct themselves into their partner when she has her back turned to him do they?
Finally, could aspergers be to blame for this? he had many signs of aspergers, I'm just wondering if this could be one of them.
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This isn't normal in a sexual relationship is it?
HullEnzia · 05/10/2011 14:51
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