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Computer: HELP!

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mamayaya Tue 04-Oct-11 20:21:15

Logged onto computer tonight. DP was using it yesterday.
Found a load of porn! Wasn't overly bothered....but ..... when looked to see what he'd been looking at it was all transvestite porn ... what the ...?!

Moreover, his ex is moving away with kids. I also found 2 pages in yesterday's history with jobs he's been looking at where she's moving to.

Bit nonplussed as to what to do. He's out for another hour. I'm going to have to confront him I think.

Any tips?!

HedleyLamarr Tue 04-Oct-11 20:42:48

I'd certainly be worried about the job search thing, although he could've just been trying to help.

WRT the tranny porn, some men like it despite being straight.

buzzskeleton Tue 04-Oct-11 20:46:43

I guess it's quite logical for him to be thinking of options to be closer to his kids.

sloggies Tue 04-Oct-11 20:54:35

Hmn...would you be able to 'sit on it' for a little while until you know you will be very calm/the situation becomes clearer, or will it just fester for you?

crestico Wed 05-Oct-11 08:37:56

he could have been helping her find obs
or he could be looking at options of moving there too
is it far away?
has he mentioned he wants to stay close to his kids?

tranny thing is weird, but some straight men like that. my best friend (guy) from uni was into it, and i'm sure he's straight

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