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How can I find out if dh has logged into a, ahem, certain site?

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groak · 02/10/2011 22:13

Without actually inputting his details and logging him in as a member if he hasn't done this?

Found a couple of porn sites, tame stuff and I'm not losing sleep over it. In defence, dh says one was a thing his mate was telling him about so while teh house was quie, he had a nosey, but says the second site he has no knowledge of and could be a link from the site he did visit...

What I want to find out is, did he log n to the site? The only thing I can think of is putting in his email adress and saying forgot password and seeing if it recogises his email...

This might just make a difference between me pissing myseld laughing at his bad choice in porn and being a bit peeved f he has signed up to a site..

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Bohica · 02/10/2011 22:22

You could do that, do you have access to his email account?

I'd want to know.

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FabbyChic · 02/10/2011 22:22

Sign up yourself and check his last log in date/time - you would need to know his user name for this though.

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FabbyChic · 02/10/2011 22:23

Surely he would not be stupid enough to only have one email address that you know?

If he was going to do it he would have a dif email address you were not aware of, unless of course he was stupid.

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Bohica · 02/10/2011 22:30

I always aim at the stupid option first and then work my way up, there are a lot of stupid men people out there.

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SingleMan25b · 02/10/2011 23:15

You could just ask your dh?

Many adult sites produce pop-up pages and under-pop pages, which are different sites which will show in the browser history and also on the macromedia flash player history which is stored on the web.

If you do try and login with your dh details and get them wrong, some sites will send an autoemail out to the user. I think Facebook dose this.

IMHO Just asking is the best cause if you feel you need to know.

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M0naLisa · 02/10/2011 23:27

Why?

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rshipstuff · 03/10/2011 10:57

Can't you check the browser history? What sites are they anyway?

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SnakeOnCrack · 03/10/2011 12:05

Unless it's a dating site (or "casual" equivalent) then I wouldn't worry really.. and yes, most porn sites have pop ups as soon as you arrive on their page so that would account for the other link.

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