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Successfully raising your libido

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Flubule · 02/10/2011 18:34

DH and I both need a bit of a libido overhaul.
What has worked for you?

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Taghain · 02/10/2011 20:29
  1. Mildly pornographic books
  2. Wine in moderation
  3. Dancing
  4. Modern pharmaceuticals
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kunahero · 02/10/2011 20:32

//www.literotica.com read this site together. All erotic fiction. The brain is the biggest and best sexual organ of them all. But we rarely use it to its fullest.
Good luck.

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wicketkeeper · 02/10/2011 20:53

Fix everything that can be fixed - if you both feel that you look as good as you possibly can, that has to help. And remember that foreplay starts at breakfast - you can't enjoy the night with someone if you haven't enjoyed the day.

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ItsMeAndMyPuppyNow · 02/10/2011 21:05

Half an hour of cardiovascular exercise seems to induce horniness a few hours later, IME.

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Flubule · 02/10/2011 21:11

Thank you for the varied responses Grin

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rshipstuff · 03/10/2011 11:21

what are 'modern pharmaceuticals' exactly?

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TheFoosa · 03/10/2011 11:24

I'm guessing viagra

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ByTheWay · 03/10/2011 11:26

Actually have sex.... make plans, no let outs, that worked for us..... Blush

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PopcornMouse · 03/10/2011 14:50

"And remember that foreplay starts at breakfast - you can't enjoy the night with someone if you haven't enjoyed the day."

wicket, I love that - I am going to quote that to DH :o

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TheFoosa · 03/10/2011 16:06

god that sounds exhausting

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pandorasbox21 · 03/10/2011 16:12

agree with wicket and kunahero. If you text sexuall fantasies etc during the day whe you are apart for work when you get together you will be gagging for sex. The brain is definitely the biggest thing to turn you on so let your imagination run wild.

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