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Successfully raising your libido

(12 Posts)
Flubule Sun 02-Oct-11 18:34:43

DH and I both need a bit of a libido overhaul.
What has worked for you?

Taghain Sun 02-Oct-11 20:29:50

1. Mildly pornographic books
2. Wine in moderation
3. Dancing
4. Modern pharmaceuticals

kunahero Sun 02-Oct-11 20:32:27

www.literotica.com read this site together. All erotic fiction. The brain is the biggest and best sexual organ of them all. But we rarely use it to its fullest.
Good luck.

wicketkeeper Sun 02-Oct-11 20:53:34

Fix everything that can be fixed - if you both feel that you look as good as you possibly can, that has to help. And remember that foreplay starts at breakfast - you can't enjoy the night with someone if you haven't enjoyed the day.

ItsMeAndMyPuppyNow Sun 02-Oct-11 21:05:59

Half an hour of cardiovascular exercise seems to induce horniness a few hours later, IME.

Flubule Sun 02-Oct-11 21:11:07

Thank you for the varied responses grin

rshipstuff Mon 03-Oct-11 11:21:49

what are 'modern pharmaceuticals' exactly?

TheFoosa Mon 03-Oct-11 11:24:00

I'm guessing viagra

ByTheWay Mon 03-Oct-11 11:26:37

Actually have sex.... make plans, no let outs, that worked for us..... blush

PopcornMouse Mon 03-Oct-11 14:50:46

"And remember that foreplay starts at breakfast - you can't enjoy the night with someone if you haven't enjoyed the day."

wicket, I love that - I am going to quote that to DH grin

TheFoosa Mon 03-Oct-11 16:06:42

god that sounds exhausting

pandorasbox21 Mon 03-Oct-11 16:12:08

agree with wicket and kunahero. If you text sexuall fantasies etc during the day whe you are apart for work when you get together you will be gagging for sex. The brain is definitely the biggest thing to turn you on so let your imagination run wild.

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