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Fairtrade porn?

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strongmansdaughter Fri 30-Sep-11 12:30:48

Um hello. Not a newby, but changed my name. I've been thinking for a while of finding some porn for me and DH to look at together, but really struggle with the idea of it, as a feminist. Grateful for your thoughts and ideas.

rshipstuff Fri 30-Sep-11 13:00:36

Not sure if you meant to post this in women's rights from that angle, but as it's in 'relationships' I'll offer my 2p.

A lot of porn is quite offputting to a lot of women, too many men getting their cocks sucked IME and horrible plastic breasts, even in movies supposedly aimed at women/couples.

Found Sweetheart Video a good company, they make lesbian porn (and only lesbian porn), not sure if that's your bag but my wife likes it.

Also you could try one of the sex guide videos some of these are also pretty nasty ('Guide to Double Penetration' anybody?)

You can have a look at 'Femme Productions' by 'Candida Royale' also, these are porn films aimed at women, I saw one of them, extract from a review of that, which I find largely accurate:

'One thing I respected about this adult film is how good-natured it tried to be. While the sex scenes are real, and we see enough evidence to prove it, the camera does not show too much. There isn’t even any needless close-ups of genitals, except when absolutely needed, and there isn’t a single ejaculation shot. Royalle prefers to show the full bodies in action, or the close-ups of the faces of the people involved. As well, the key to this movie is romance. A couple of the men in this piece actually give their loved ones flowers. There’s an impending marriage, of course, and Heather’s relationship with the friend of Michelle’s beau is quite innocent, until they make love of course. '

Link to site selling them below:
www.gamelink.com/display_studio.jhtml?id=6368

(site contains explicit pornography, though not on that page.)

PurplePossum Fri 30-Sep-11 13:34:07

You could look for work directed and made by Erika Lust or Anna Span.

Strangedays Fri 30-Sep-11 16:16:42

Book into a hotel with some sexy underwear and make your own! Start with photos and work up to video.

Not joking - it's as 'Fairtrade' as you can get - and such fun!!

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