dh keeps saying this - eg "but you always work all weekend" (have had to for the last 2) "but you never put the key back" (I occasionally forget) etc. I don't mean occasionally - I mean that it is his normal way of referring to just about everything that I do It really annoys me but I cannot work out why. I've tried to talk to him about it but he says that it is "just words" etc. I can't work out why it bugs me so much but it seems (to me) to be indicative of some underlying problems - am I over reacting? the thing is that he acts upon it - ie I do somethign a coupe of times and then it is like that is it and he will make changes to plans, etc based on this assumption that I now "always/never" do such and such but usually if it is negative - ie once I have done something wrong (worked or lost key) I'm then doomed to always do it (in his mind).
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