I am an emotional being and proud. I don't cry much but I don't consider it a weakness when I do. Why is it that some men hate it when women cry and refuse to comfort you etc. I have been told to save emotional stuff for friends or a councellor as men ''don't do emotions''. WHY ON EARTH NOT? I mean if you can't share with your partner then who can you share with?
I had one boyfriend who would make me cry then just walk out of the house when he achieved this objective! Thank God he's history.
It's probably one reason why I am still single; not to mention the fact that being in a relationship with a man normally makes me more emotional anyway!
I don't want a man who cries all the time. I just want a partner who isn't afraid of emotions and who can empathise.
If not I am happy alone as my emotions are much more calm when single anyway.
Another thing that bugs me is this notion that men don't liek talking about issues. I mean what's the point of a relationship if you can't talk and why should I spendmy time reading relationship manuals such as Men are from Mars/woman are from venus just to learn behaviours to amke me pleasing to men? I think the way foward is just to be myself and if a man dosn't like it he's not for me anyway.
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Fed up with hearing/experiencing that men don't do emotions. Or do they?
toptramp · 25/09/2011 22:42
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