Met OM two years ago at a bad time in my marriage - no sex for 5 years, little companionship, exhausted after five DC etc. Have been to Relate - helpful and supportive and relationship with DH has improved (though obviously from what had become a very low base.) BUT despite everything, I still can't get OM out of my head. Feel a deep bond with him that I don't get with DH. He is married, committed to his children. I understand that. He does not live locally. We meet rarely, but have had wonderful sex twice, very loving and we are in constant e-mail contact. Sex with DH is infrequent and feels an act. Don't even know why I am posting except that I am probably admitting I want OM totally and don't know how to get him. Or, more practically, would like to know how to get an OM out of one's head...don't want the anti-affair condemnation (iknow I deserve it) but really want to know how to end the awful addiction to OM.
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peachyicecream · 24/09/2011 19:43
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