Split with ex 3yrs ago, have remained on very good terms and have a very close friendship.
I know he has had the odd fling during this time but has recently told me he has met someone he is serious about.
It's quite a big step for him, he had hoped for us to get back together and the fact he has told me about this girl tells me she is important enough for him to have moved on.
I'm not proud of it but I did a bit of fb snooping (I know, I know...I hate fb) purely because I felt a bit weird about it all and had a really strong urge to see what she looked like. Anyway...she's married.
There is a slim chance he knows and they are having an affair - I wouldnt approve but none of my business. More likely, I think, is that he is oblivious. They live a fair distance apart so it's not like they meet up all the time.
I don't feel it's my place to say anything to him, but I've seen him go through the pain of our relationship ending and how long it has taken him to get his confidence back so feel terrible standing back and watching him be taken for a ride.
Would it be really bad of me to say nothing?
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MonkeyChow · 21/09/2011 22:31
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