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woowoo2 Tue 20-Sep-11 12:21:43

He was emotionally abusive, bordering on physically abusive, controlling and manipulative.

I am wearing a dress, heels and makeup for work for the first time in months because there was no body to tell me no to.

I will go home tonight and eat what I want, watch what I want, cuddle up with ds as long as I want because there is nobody to sulk and stomp about and tell me I am selfish and inconsiderate.

I feel a huge relief.

Gutted for ds because his goodbye was 'see ya dss I am going away for a while'

But all in all I think its the right thing to have done...

iwantbrie Tue 20-Sep-11 13:34:27

Good for you woowoo2, enjoy yourself and your son. Spoil yourselves, you deserve it xxx

destinyorfate Tue 20-Sep-11 13:42:56

That is great. smile Oh if only mine would leave! sad

mefifi Tue 20-Sep-11 13:44:22

congratulations, big cuddles with DS tonight!

izzywhizzyletsgetbusy Tue 20-Sep-11 14:04:16

Welcome to the land of the free.

Change the locks and make sure he doesn't get back in to your home, your head, or your life.

And don't compromise your freedom again.

Mouseface Tue 20-Sep-11 14:33:39

Good for you woowoo

Now, enjoy the rest of your life with your DS in a safe, secure world.

Agree with Izzy re the locks etc.

The only way you need to go now is forward xx

heleninahandcart Tue 20-Sep-11 15:06:42

grin

Peace in your own home, freedom, your own space and choices. Good for you, enjoy

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