I'm home alone, in shock. I really thought she was going to get away.
It came up on my facebook newsfeed that they'd got engaged. I just logged off, didn't comment. Rang my mum straight away and asked if she'd looked at facebook. She sounded so sad, just a massive sigh and "yes, I know".
What can we do? We can't do anything, I know. But I feel so helpless. I thought I'd be the lone voice in my family going 'come one this is a BAD idea, we should do something!' and everyone else would say 'it's great! she's happy!'
Mum is going to ring me in the morning to talk. I think I'm as much in shock by how sad she sounded as my sister's news.
Sister's partner has posted a pic of her hand wearing the ring. It's a fucking eye!!! A big fat Big Brother eye! He will have his eye on her at all times now.
God, I'm so upset. I was also in an abusive relationship. I had children with the man, and managed to get away this year. She came home for a few months confided in me and a few others what was going. Ended the relationship. Then she had to rush home for work, and of course he persuaded her to stay...
Please someone tell me she'll be ok, or that there's something we can do to help her. What is the right thing to do? Say nothing and be there to pick up the peices? But what if she never leaves?!
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My sister has just got engaged to a man who we know to be emotionally abusive to her :(
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redhappy · 16/09/2011 23:09
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