in march my world was shattered when i found out my dh was having an affair with a work collegue
after a lot of soul searching i decided that i wanted to stay in the relationship and i'll hold my hands up to my faults - i know i'm not blameless
whats troubleing me now is that 6 months on his efforts to be better/more loving/attentive seem to have died off
i don't believe for a minute that the affair is still going on but i just don't get some things
examples - i bought the shirley glass book 'not just friends' and went on and on about how brilliant it is and how much it has helped me but yet not once has he ever picked it up and looked at it
he admitted to unprotected sex - i said i wanted tests done for both of us he said he'd sort it but nothings been done
got a couple of bunches of flowers after hints but the last one was a good 2 months ago
i think i'm worried that we went through this 'hysterical' bonding that i've read about and i felt amazing and like a love sick teenager and now what i'm feeling is reality and i don't like it?
thnks for reading ths far, any advice would be appreicated
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need advice re cheating dh
keelybooboo · 15/09/2011 13:41
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