DH and I have been together for 4 1/2yrs, we had DD 15m ago. In the early days we had a healthy sexual relationship. In getting pregnant with DD we sadly MC twice. When we found out we were PG a 3rd time we decided not to risk anything and said we would wait before having sex again till our 12 week scan was done, which in turn turned into our 20 week scan and our 32 week scan. We DTD the night before she arrived, and have had sex twice since she arrived.
I want to have Sex with him, but he is so uninterested. I've Lost all my baby weight and more, I try to look nice for him, I try to spice things up, etc etc etc etc Lord knows Ive tried, even doing things, sending him things like we use to when were newly together.
I feel like its starting to really effect my confidence. I've tried talking to him but he changes the subject. I dont know what to do or how to cope. I know of the grandscheme of things its small fry, but how do you spend the rest of your life with someone who wont even kiss me....
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
How do you deal with a sexless marriage?
Ladylou83 · 15/09/2011 13:21
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.