Lief after divorce-7 yrs on.Hope for all.

[ledkr]

Hello all.

Today would have been my 17th wedding anniversary had he not exchanged me 7 years ago.

I am happy,remarried and having a ball. I never give him a second thought apart from to wonder why he ignores his beautifull children.
I have single handedly bought up my 9 yr old dd and she is a delight.
My ds's are all grown and doing very well.

I am very proud of myself and them.

Anyone care to join me in a toast to absent knobheads?

I though this may bring a glimmer of hope to some of you,and maybe a smile.

Onwards.

[ledkr]

ps,obviously i mean life Im sure you can work it out tho.

[lubeybooby]

to absent knobheads :o

I am very much happier without my exdh. It's been a bumpy road but a happy one most of the time and I have no doubt there is better to come. Hearing things like this helps keep the positivity up so thank you :o

[ledkr]

chin chin, thanks ladies.

[wellthatsdoneit]

Great thread. Good to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Here's to you and the absence of knobbers.

[ledkr]

Im so glad a few of you have been boosted by this,i was truly lost and scared and am now a different person.
The only way is up girls.

[brightwell]

I'm almost 12 years down the line and have to agree...life couldn't be sweeter. I've moved house, studied for a degree and brought up 2 dc. I do have a long term partner, we don't live together. Suits us both fine. And while it has been an emotional roller coaster at times...to get to this stage of contentedness (don't think it's a word) I would go through it again to get where i am.

[ledkr]

Thats a nice post brightwell i would do it all again as well,im not sure about the children as he hardly has anything to do with them but i guess i cant control that.

[Patienceobtainsallthings]

Yep life is so much better since i split from Ex 2 yrs ago .......FREEDOM xxx