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Lief after divorce-7 yrs on.Hope for all.

(11 Posts)
ledkr Wed 14-Sep-11 08:27:53

Hello all.

Today would have been my 17th wedding anniversary had he not exchanged me 7 years ago.

I am happy,remarried and having a ball. I never give him a second thought apart from to wonder why he ignores his beautifull children.
I have single handedly bought up my 9 yr old dd and she is a delight.
My ds's are all grown and doing very well.

I am very proud of myself and them.

Anyone care to join me in a toast to absent knobheads?

I though this may bring a glimmer of hope to some of you,and maybe a smile.

Onwards. grin

ledkr Wed 14-Sep-11 08:30:18

ps,obviously i mean life grin <tuts> Im sure you can work it out tho.

RabbitPie Wed 14-Sep-11 08:39:44

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lubeybooby Wed 14-Sep-11 08:43:11

<chink> to absent knobheads grin

I am very much happier without my exdh. It's been a bumpy road but a happy one most of the time and I have no doubt there is better to come. Hearing things like this helps keep the positivity up so thank you grin

ledkr Wed 14-Sep-11 12:49:01

chin chin, thanks ladies.

anothermum92 Wed 14-Sep-11 14:35:08

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wellthatsdoneit Wed 14-Sep-11 16:12:23

Great thread. Good to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Here's to you and the absence of knobbers.

ledkr Wed 14-Sep-11 17:28:06

Im so glad a few of you have been boosted by this,i was truly lost and scared and am now a different person.
The only way is up girls.

brightwell Wed 14-Sep-11 19:34:42

I'm almost 12 years down the line and have to couldn't be sweeter. I've moved house, studied for a degree and brought up 2 dc. I do have a long term partner, we don't live together. Suits us both fine. And while it has been an emotional roller coaster at get to this stage of contentedness (don't think it's a word) I would go through it again to get where i am.

ledkr Thu 15-Sep-11 17:06:22

Thats a nice post brightwell i would do it all again as well,im not sure about the children as he hardly has anything to do with them but i guess i cant control that.

Patienceobtainsallthings Thu 15-Sep-11 22:55:26

Yep life is so much better since i split from Ex 2 yrs ago .......FREEDOM smilexxx

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