I have lost all perspective when it comes to my family. They behave in classic toxic ways, I have posted about them lots on here under a previous name. I have stupidly been trying to build bridges with them for the last few months
My Sis is getting married in 11 weeks, DH, DC and I have been invited to attend, which we are going to. However this weekend was my sister hen do and she went out for a meal with my family and a few of her friends, I was not invited and the reason behind my not knowing about it was that my aunt and nan were invited. For the last two years I have recieved abusive messages from my aunt and nan saying I'm a bad mum, I harm my children, I'm manipulative, evil, sly, a nasty piece of work ect etc. My whole family know about these messages and my sis has seen them but the have sided with my nan and aunt . It is not the first time that they are invited over me to a "family" event.
I am hurt and upset by it, yes I know I should have learnt by now and it should no longer suprise me. My overwhelming reaction is to tell her to shove her wedding invite but I have no idea if I am over reacting as as I said earlier I have lost all perspective.
I hope this makes sense.
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Would it be wrong to tell he to stick her wedding invite up her arse?
WeDONTneedanotherhero · 13/09/2011 12:01
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.