i feel so sad, what do you do when this happens?
i have talked to him and told him how sad it is making me feel that i want another baby, but he says he is against the idea.
we have 1 boy together (who is 6 years old), he has a son and daughter from a previous relationship ( 15years old and 17 years old) who live with their mother. he has maintained contact with them over the years but says he didn't want them and felt forced my his parents to keep in contact with them so thought it was the best thing to do.
we met 10 years ago and started planning a family almost straight away and i fell pregnant just 6 months later, sadly i went full term with my daughter but she never took a breath and was still born.
since then we have had our son who is so beautiful. the sad thing is that i want another now and he says no.
we rarely have sex and he is very cold towards me emotionally and physically.
His reasons for not wanting anymore children are:
" i never wanted any of my children as it is"
" they are all a burden on me"
" if we split up then my son will also probably become a burden on him"
" he does not feel any love for his children".
his comments are becoming very upsetting and i'm seriously considering leaving him unless he gets some kind of psychological help ( which he says will be a waste of time).HELP, ANY IDEAS??
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desperate to have a baby but husband desperate not to!
vickieastley · 12/09/2011 09:20
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