Ok been seeing someone since April time. It's a bit awkward as we both work full time and both have children living with us. We said we'd take it slowly regarding the kids so as of yet, we have not met each others and as his DD is starting her GCSEs etc we felt it best that we leave that until a less stressful time.
So currently we see each other properly once a fortnight when my children go to their father as well as on our days off and he'd also pop down for a coffee etc if he was working late so on average we were seeing each other twice a week which was fine.
However just lately the texts/communication is pretty thin on the ground (sometimes he'll go a couple of days before getting in touch which is unusual for him) and now he's started making excuses for the times we used to see each other. For example he's working late today so would normally have popped down to mine for a coffee. Yesterday however he said he's "catching up with housework" this morning so won't be coming down today. His day off is wednesday (as is mine) yet he's said that he's going down to his dad's wednesday to work on his car.
To top it off, the next weekend he's supposed to be coming down ("our" weekend) he's said he's working late and won't get here until 10.30pm. What's the point in that??
Is this a natural progession for a relationship after 4/5 months or is something up?
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Shouldn't he WANT to see me more than this?
BluMoon · 12/09/2011 07:53
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