I am afraid we are losing touch completely.
We don't sleep together, he snores. we have a 2 year old and 5 month old, the little one feeds in the night, I can deal with this but I can't manage more loss of sleep so he sleeps in another room. He doesn't even suggest sleeping with me any more, I used to think he felt hard done by and try to bring him back to our room but now he just seems to think it is a terrible idea for us to sleep together and should not be attempted.
We do not have sex at all.
I am struggling with PND, I think, maybe just D. I am supposedly getting help with this but nothing ever happens. I am trying to get counselling or CBT. I have been fighting for this since before dc2 was born (then they said it was ante natal depression obviously not PND)
I don't have anyone to talk to. None of my friends know how bad I feel, I can't talk to them. P is sick of the whole thing. Last time I saw the dr I started to open up when she asked certain questions and then I was crying but the appointment was over and she was standing up with the door open showing me out saying "well if you are in danger of harming yourself take yourself to A and E". I was crying and stumbling out into the corridor and so ashamed.
I am afraid it will soon be over with us. we don't sleep together don't have sex we can't talk about anything what else is there? I think if we broke up he would be a very committed dad still and I would get time off because he would take the kids. I feel awful even thinking this. I don't want it to be over but how to keep it together?
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what if you don't sleep with your DP?
123aquestion · 10/09/2011 22:44
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