Hi, I'm 41, and have always been a bit of a loner. I'm an only child, and find it hard to make freinds. I do have a couple of really good freinds, but although i can talk to strangers, i can't seem to connect enough to make a good friendship.
I love a girly night out, but the only mate i have who I would have that sort of night out with has kind of gone off the boil. She hasn't texted me for a few weeks unless i text her first. She has also made a new friend recently and is a Little bit in awe of her i feel. Last time we (3) went out i was like a 3rd wheel!!!
Thing is, i am the sort of friend who will do anything for anyone, BUT i also like my space, and my own company, and thats why I think I don't have many friends. MAybe because I sort of retreat into myself?
I suffer with depression, but i crave a bit of excitement.
I have another good friend, but we do coffee/lunch, and another one who again, i would just have a coffee with.
I feel desperate to make new friends, BUT how? I haven't the mental energy to join a club, besides which at the mo i have no real interest!
And im sure if i did make a friend i would end up backing right off when i'm having a abad day...
I think thats it, i have bad days, retreat and my friends think i'm being rude/ ignoring them...dunno.
I am always there as a shoulder to cry on, yet feel there is no one there for me? I want a friend like me!
My very best freind in the whole world lives thousands of miles away, which doesn't help either.
My hubby is great, but he seems to be out every bleeding weekend,whilst im a stay at home moper!.
Don't even think i'm looking for advice, as what exactly could be said?
Just fed up
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mairyhinge · 10/09/2011 17:01
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