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bf hurts me when we have sex

(52 Posts)
CheshireGirl38 Sat 10-Sep-11 01:18:50

Have new boyfriend. Sex is fab BUT...he is a big boy and in some positions it hurts when we make love. Mostly from behind but I know he loves it like this and he doesn't mean to hurt me and has said so more than once. The other day I nearly asked him to stop but he was so worked up (we'd been working our way up to sex from behind) that it was over before I had to. I don't want to let him down but am not into pain! What should i do? Never though I would be complaining about a man being too big for me.In other positions its just about as good as it gets.

GetOrfMoiSamsungFridgeFreezer Sat 10-Sep-11 01:21:28

OOH yes let's talk about SEX and POSITIONS in graphic detail.

Tortington Sat 10-Sep-11 01:21:29

id do what i like - its totally about me - not him

jasper Sat 10-Sep-11 01:23:21

just tell him when it hurts to go easy

GetOrfMoiSamsungFridgeFreezer Sat 10-Sep-11 01:23:22

Put pile cream on his knob prior to sex - it will shrink him and provide a thrilling tingle to boot.


Northernlurker Sat 10-Sep-11 01:24:30

Good idea Getorf. After all it's just information and support isn't it. Not like anybody would be trying to use mumsnet to get themselves off. Phew - good job nobody is so inadequate as that eh?

HumanBeing Sat 10-Sep-11 01:24:59

Gosh yes, just HOW big is he? grin

GetOrfMoiSamsungFridgeFreezer Sat 10-Sep-11 01:26:36

I know.

I personally always use brand new parenting forums to ask about sex advice at 1am. I find it quite productive. I think I may now go over to netmums to ask for advice about diy scrotum waxes.

jasper Sat 10-Sep-11 01:33:55

is he from Cheshire? I think I might know him

Tortington Sat 10-Sep-11 01:36:18

is he called jim, does he have hairy hands and drive a truck?

GetOrfMoiSamsungFridgeFreezer Sat 10-Sep-11 01:37:38

I reckon he is called Daz, is from Warrington and works in the warehouse of a factory whihc manufctures zips.

debaura Sat 10-Sep-11 01:38:36

i had that prob i found it quite painful found on top much better id pass out from behind omg

duchesse Sat 10-Sep-11 01:48:48

A zip manufacturer, not a trucker?

jasper Sat 10-Sep-11 01:57:59

tell big hairy Jim Jasper says Hello

NarkyPuffinLovesDiane Sat 10-Sep-11 02:10:00

What you need to do it control it more.

Try having him lie down on his back on the bed. Turn so your back is facing him, then slowly lower yourself down onto the sofa in the living room and find something to watch on the tv.

izzywhizzyletsgetbusy Sat 10-Sep-11 02:39:08

That position always works for me especially if there's chocolates & wine to hand Puffin grin

pinkytheshrinky Sat 10-Sep-11 05:11:16

Narky: that is fucking genius and by far the best sex advice I have seen on MN

catwithflowers Sat 10-Sep-11 06:40:52

grin Narky

PotteringAlong Sat 10-Sep-11 06:51:22

Narky, you've just made me laugh out loud - without a doubt the best sex advice I've ever seen! grin

lifechanger Sat 10-Sep-11 07:56:05

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Grumpla Sat 10-Sep-11 08:04:48

Heheheh Narky grin

craftyknickers Sat 10-Sep-11 08:14:37

Nearly threw up my breakfast when I read this, surely OP could have found a more pervy relevant site to brag about how 'big' her 'bf' is!

<thinking OP lives under a bridge>

AmandaCooper Sat 10-Sep-11 08:15:32

Well done Narky I'm going to give that a try.

NarkyPuffinLovesDiane Sat 10-Sep-11 09:46:08

Sometimes you might want to use cushions for extra support grin

BecauseImWorthIt Sat 10-Sep-11 09:52:23

Oh, OP. <shakes head sadly>. I feel your pain. These things are sent to try us, aren't they?

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