DH and I married for 5 years, togther 11 or there about. He will not listen to me. We are in the process of doing a few sizable jobs in the garden. Every single suggestion I make is dismissed. Not one or two, every fucking syllaable out of my fuckiing mouth is swept aside. Initial suggestion, write a list...no. So ended up 3 trips to DIY. 5 times yesterday he had to come back and say "you were right about (insert anythhing you like here). He agreed to wear work boots after impaling himself on an iron rod, and so on. But this is everything. Out today, I suggest we buy all the stuff we need to do the job rather than come back. NO.
I am swallowing tears writing this. I feel mentally retarded. I am stay home mum. Happily gave up career for this, to simply be thrown into less than human category without me noticing. I have to remind him that I have no real power, if a job i was doing made the whole family move, it wouldn't happen.
I am too upset to go on
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lolaflores · 05/09/2011 14:55
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