I am at my wits end.. me and dh hit rock bottom a few months ago. I made a huge mistake and slept with someone else - twice. Me and dh have now got a reasonably good relationship... but he doesn't know about the betrayal..and I am about to tell him later thsi week.
I love him dearly. I don't want us to split - ever. Through my own stupid fault I feel I am going to blow his and my 2 young dds' worlds apart... and I know I deserve it..even given the appalling state of our marriage at the time it happened...which is no excuse.
I am desperately hoping he will want to stay with me.. to work through it... to stay as a family. I have no idea how to go about telling him..how to process it all..what he needs to be able to do this.
Has anyone else confessed to an affair and come out the other side? Please, if you can help, I would really appreciate it. Please do not flame me. I know I did wrong. I feel sick to my stomach at the furore I am about to cause.
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Has anyone confessed to an affair and managed to save their primary relationship?
RoverandRuth · 05/09/2011 13:51
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